When you have put yourself on the line, making ripples, showing up on the DS threat meter, are the difference. Those who have not are not going to fair well. When you live the truth it is the means of life. Anything else you are the deer in the head lights.
Giving to those in need by those who see family. They also put medical packs and winter clothing to those who serve in the IDF. Again they see both civilian and military as family.