One means to see that they are seeking to manipulate you to move in the direction they want is to use Emotions, through an emotional argument(s). Check yourself out and see what you are heading towards and then see Why you chose that way to go.
For years, since 2015, many some ex-Muslims who have warred the western countries of the nastiness of these Muslim men which is the outward sign of the consanguinitation of their minds towards western women. In that broken mind they will commit more crime.